Your friends are better than you:
Friendship Paradox and its social
consequences
Kristina Lerman
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http://www.isi.edu/~lerman
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Networks shape behavior and perceptions
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Networks shape behavior and perceptions
1. Networks shape behavior: form the substrate for social
interactions and information flow.
2. Your friends are a small subset of the population.
3. Friends are not a random sample of the population.
4. This distorts your perceptions. (A rare trait can appear
very popular)
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What color is more popular?
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What color is more popular?
Nodes think yellow is
more Blue is not
especially popular
Most nodes think blue is
popular
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Local vs global views
K. Schaul, “A quick puzzle to tell whether you know
what people are thinking”, Wonkblog, Washington
Post
https://www.washingtonpost.com /graphics/business/wonkblog/ma
jority-illusion/
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Networks distort local information
Networks can systematically bias individual
perceptions of what is common among peers
Example: College students overestimate peers’ alcohol use
Source: Most Students Do PartySafe@Cal
How many alcoholic drinks are consumed at a party
0%
10%
20%
30%
40%
None 1-2
drinks
3-4
drinks
5-6
drinks
7+
drinks
Myself
0%
10%
20%
30%
40%
None 1-2
drinks
3-4
drinks
5-6
drinks
7+
drinks
My Friends
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Outline
Friendship paradox
The many friendship paradoxes in networks
Origins of paradoxes: a network science view
Perception bias
Friendship paradox in directed networks
… biases perceptions of popularity
Twitter case study: Some hashtags appear more
popular than they are
Polling
Estimate global popularity with perception bias
… with a limited budget
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Lots of paradoxes!
Friendship paradox
You friends have more friends than
you do, on average [Feld, 1991]
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Lots of paradoxes!
Friendship paradox
You friends have more friends than
you do, on average [Feld, 1991]
Generalized friendship paradox
You friends are more X than you are,
on average [Hodas et al., 2013, Eom
& Jo, 2014]
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Lots of paradoxes!
Strong friendship paradox
Most of your friends have more friends
than you do [Kooti et al., 2014]
Friendship paradox
You friends have more friends than
you do, on average [Feld, 1991]
Generalized friendship paradox
You friends are more X than you are,
on average [Hodas et al., 2013, Eom
& Jo, 2014]
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Lots of paradoxes!
Strong friendship paradox
Most of your friends have more friends
than you do [Kooti et al., 2014]
Generalized strong friendship
Most of your friends are more X than
you are [Kooti et al, 2014]
Majority illusion
Most of your friends have a trait, even
when it is rare. [Lerman et al, 2016]
Friendship paradox
You friends have more friends than
you do, on average [Feld, 1991]
Generalized friendship paradox
You friends are more X than you are,
on average [Hodas et al., 2013, Eom
& Jo, 2014]
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How common is strong friendship paradox?
Network
Type
Nodes
Probability of
paradox
LiveJournal
Social
3,997,962
84
Twitter
Social
780,000
98
Skitter
Internet
1,696,415
89
Google
Hyperlink
875,713
77
ProsperLoan
Social Finance
89,269
88
ArXiv
Citation
34,546
79
WordNet
Semantic
146,005
75
Very common… almost everyone observes that most of their
friends are more popular
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Twitter Digg
0
50
100
%
u
s
e
rs
mean median
Twitter Digg
0
50
100
%
u
s
e
rs
But wait, there is more
Twitter Digg
0
50
100
%
u
s
e
rs
mean median
[Kooti, et al (2014) “Network Weirdness: Exploring the origins of network paradoxes” in ICWSM]
Activity
You post less than
most of your
friends
Diversity
You see less diverse
content than
most of your
friends
Virality
You see less viral
content than
most of your
friends
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Why?
Strong friendship paradox
Most of your friends have more friends
than you do [Kooti et al., 2014]
Generalized strong friendship
Most of your friends are more X than
you are [Kooti et al, 2014]
Majority illusion
Most of your friends have a trait, even
when it is rare. [Lerman et al, 2016]
Friendship paradox
You friends have more friends than
you do, on average [Feld, 1991]
Generalized friendship paradox
You friends are more X than you are,
on average [Hodas et al., 2013, Eom
& Jo, 2014]
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Different explanations
Strong friendship paradox
Most of your friends have more friends
than you do [Kooti et al., 2014]
Generalized strong friendship
Most of your friends are more X than
you are [Kooti et al, 2014]
Majority illusion
Most of your friends have a trait, even
when it is rare. [Lerman et al, 2016]
Friendship paradox
You friends have more friends than
you do, on average [Feld, 1991]
Generalized friendship paradox
You friends are more X than you are,
on average [Hodas et al., 2013, Eom
& Jo, 2014]
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Friendship paradox as a byproduct of sampling
from a heterogeneous distribution
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10
2
10
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10
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10
−2
10
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# posted tweets (log binned)
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D
F
your value x
your friends’ values
x
1
, …, x
k
x
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Friendship paradox as a byproduct of sampling
from a heterogeneous distribution
10
0
10
2
10
4
10
−6
10
−4
10
−2
10
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# posted tweets (log binned)
P
D
F
your value x
your friends’ values
x
1
, …, x
k
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Sample mean grows with k
x
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Strong friendship paradox is a network effect
To explain strong friendship paradox, need to account
for network structure
Building blocks of network structure
dK series framework represents network structure as the joint degree distribution of
subgraphs of up to d nodes
P. Mahadevan, D. Krioukov et. al., ACM SIGCOMM Comp. Comm. Rev. 36 135
146 (2006)
Node degree distribution
First-order structure (1K)
Pair degree distribution
Second-order structure (2K)
Triplet degree distribution
Third-order structure (3K)
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Node degree distribution p(k)
Probability that a randomly selected node has
degree k.
Any heterogeneous degree distribution (variance >
0) will lead to a (weak) friendship paradox
First-order (1K) structure
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Neighbor degree distribution q(k)~kp(k)
Probability that a randomly selected neighbor
has degree k.
Any heterogeneous degree distribution (variance >
0) will lead to a (weak) friendship paradox
First-order (1K) structure
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Digg social network
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disassortative assortative
… Nodes do not link at random
Joint degree distribution of connected pairs of
nodes e(k,k)
Probability that a randomly selected edge links
nodes with degrees k and k’.
Degree assortativity r
2k
MEJ Newman, Assortative Mixing in Networks, Phys Rev Lett 89
208701 (2002)
Second-order (2K) structure
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negative
neighbor assortativity
original network
… nodes do not link to random neighbors
Neighbor assortativity: neighbors tend to have
similar (or dissimilar) degrees, r
3k
Networks can have the same 1K and 2K structure but
different 3K structure
Wu, Percus & Lerman, Neighbor Degree Assortativity in Networks, in
preparation
Third-order (3K) structure
positive
neighbor assortativity
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Real-world networks have third-order structure
Degree correlations among nodes neighbors in real-world
networks are often large
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Third-order structure enhances paradoxes
Neighbors’ degrees are
not correlated*
Neighbors’ degrees are
correlated*
*same 1K and 2K structure
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Third-order structure enhances paradoxes
Neighbors’ degrees are
not correlated*
Neighbors’ degrees are
correlated*
*same 1K and 2K structure
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84%
89%
77%
88%
79%
75%
Fraction of degree-k nodes experiencing the paradox
in real-world networks ;
predictions of the 2K model · · · and the 3K model .
[Wu et al (2017) “Neighbor-neighbor correlations explain measurement bias in networks”
Scientific Reports 7]
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From friendship paradox to “majority Illusion”
Nodes have a binary trait: active/not, yellow/blue,
heavy drinker/teetotaler, …
Blue does not appear
common
Many think that blue is
common
[Lerman, Wu & Yan (2016) The “Majority Illusion” in Social Networks, in Plos One.]
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Network structure amplifies majority illusion
More nodes will think that blue is very
common when:
Higher degree nodes are more likely to be
blue: degree-trait (k-x) correlation
High degree nodes link to low degree nodes:
degree disassorativity (r
2k
<0)
Neighbors tend to have similar degree:
neighbor assortativity (r
3k
>0)
[Lerman, Wu & Yan (2016) The “Majority Illusion” in Social Networks, in Plos One.]
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Network structure amplifies majority illusion
[Lerman, Wu & Yan (2016) The “Majority Illusion” in Social Networks, in Plos One.]
Fraction of nodes experiencing the majority illusion in a
synthetic network with 0.5% active nodes;
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Friendship paradox in directed networks
user
friends
followers
in-degree
out-degree
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Friendship paradox in directed networks
user
friends
followers
friends-of-friends
followers-of-followers
friends-of-
followers
followers-
of-friends
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Probability a node experiences a paradox
friends have more followers followers have more friends
followers have more followers friends have more friends
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Local perception bias
Popularity of a (binary) attribute: probability a random
node v has value f(v)
Local perception of node v about popularity of an
attribute f is the fraction of her friends with attribute
Local perception bias: nodes perceive the attribute f to
more popular than it actually is
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Global popularity vs local perception on Twitter
Twitter data
Time period
Summer 2014
Network
5K users + tweets
Their 600K friends + tweets
Hashtags
18M hashtags
Focus on 1K most popular
hashtags, used by >1K
people
Compare perceived popularity
of hashtags to their actual
popularity
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Conditions for local perception bias
Local bias exists if:
Higher out-degree (high influence) tend to have the attribute.
Lower in-degree nodes (high attention) tend to follow nodes with
attribute.
Theorem: (  ) if
U
V
high
influence
high
attention
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Polling
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What is the right question to ask in a poll?
Estimate the true prevalence of an attribute through polls
Estimate the fraction of liberals vs conservatives, heavy
drinkers vs teetotalers, people who used a hashtag vs not, …
…with limited budged b
Polling:
1. Intent Polling (IP): [b random nodes] Will you vote for X?
2. Node Perception Polling (NPP): [b random nodes] What
fraction of your friends will vote for X?
3. Follower Perception Polling (FPP): [b random followers]
What fraction of your friends will vote for X?
aggregates perceptions of more people
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Bias & variance of FPP
Bias of the polling estimate (error) T
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Variance is bounded by
l
2
, second largest eigenvalue
of the symmetrized adjacency matrix of the network
Mean squared error of the polling estimate T:
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FPP polling algorithm is more efficient
When used to estimate the true popularity of Twitter hashtags, FPP
has lower variance and MSE.
For a given budget, i.e., number of nodes sampled, it outperforms
other polling methods on many hashtags.
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To summarize
Network structure can systematically bias local
perceptions
Making a rare attribute appear far more common than it is,
under some conditions
Open questions: What is the impact of network bias on
Collective dynamics in networks, e.g., contagious outbreaks
Network control and intervention
Psychological well-being
Your friends are happier that you are (Bollen et al. 2016)
Your co-authors are more prestigious than you are (Eom & Jo 2014)
Social comparison theory
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